May 13, 2022
On this episode of the
Girlfriend Doctor, I had a conversation with Dr. Keesha Ewers. Dr.
Keesha is an Autoimmune Wellness & Integrative Medicine Medical
Provider as well as a Doctor in Sexology. She specializes in
digestive and hormonal health, and in this show, she gives us the
key tips to reversing and preventing autoimmune diseases,
maintaining sexual health, and more!
Dr. Keesha details how
unexpressed emotions as a child can linger in our bodies until they
are fully purged out of our system. Specific events in our
childhood can have a significant amount of trauma related emotion,
which can lead to several illnesses and diseases like RA
(rheumatoid arthritis), an autoimmune and inflammatory diseases,
one which Dr. Keesha was able to heal from, fortunately. As adults,
what we think is trauma is much different from what we thought it
was as children.
Most kids (Dr. Keesha being one
of them) have no idea what trauma even looks like, let alone how
deeply it affects our bodies later on in life. Taking the time to
focalize on what causes specific triggers in our lives as adults is
key to healing the trauma we endured as a child. Dr. Keesha makes
it immensely evident that we have to be the parent/protector that
we always needed to our younger, inner self. She’s a gem in the
world of integrative and hormonal health, so you won’t want to miss
this crucial talk!
KEY TAKEAWAYS (with timestamps):
- [4:49] How Dr. Ewers came into
her love for health
- [10:21] Going in-depth on the
road to recovery work
- [17:17] Bonding between mother
and newborn is crucial for baby’s development
- [24:16] Journey in healing from
sexual trauma
- [33:07] Learning how to
perceive yourself in a different light
- [41:29] How sexual health plays
into the internal healing process
WHERE TO FIND THE GUEST:
MEMORABLE QUOTES:
- “Auto-immune disease is
undigested anger… it’s so interesting. Even the thought of
digesting your emotions.”
- “One day when I was meditating,
I started asking this question, oh auto-immune means I’m attacking
myself. When is the first time I wanted to die? Because I don’t
want to die today.”
- “My RA was gone in six months
and I never took any of the medications. So it’s very powerful,
this mind-body connection.”
- “I didn’t bond with my mom. So
I grew up insecurely attached. And then had trauma on top of that
trauma. So it’s no wonder, auto-immune disease, right?”
- “What that button consists of is the next part
of it which is the meaning you make up that goes with this
event.”
- “And this is why a lot of
people will do energy work and they don’t get completely healed
because this hasn’t been tracked yet. I call this tracking your
hurt.”
- “You have to track this hurt
first, that’s the first thing. And then, work on healing that
wounding. And so, I start by getting a calm and safe place
established in each person’s nervous system.”
- “You have to become the parent
you wish you had at that moment for you, and you heal that
attachment internally.”
- “MenoPAUSE is that place where
we get that beautiful opportunity to pause and really take a look
at the inventory of our life experiences and really digest
them.”
- “Sexual expression is going to
match the flavor of whatever your belief and behavior system you
set up in your childhood.”
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